I am back to the blogging world after a bit of a gap. Marriage and the efforts to settle down as a “family-man” took so much of my time that some of the things that I would do regularly took a back seat – blogging being one of them. The life changes completely after marriage. I never believed in that when my newly married friends would tell me. But as in many other cases, experience makes you think other ways. There is a new perspective to everything you do. And then, this is one big exploration to unchartered territory. One tends to associate weirdness to everything that happens – because whatever you used to do earlier, doesn’t seem to be the right thing to do all of a sudden. Its some sort of a culture shock at times; where you are made to believe that you were wrong the way you are. All of a sudden, the things that would by default be the ones that would give you happiness, becomes something that your partner doesn’t really appreciate. It’s more of a tug-of-war – between you in the past and you in the present. And in this uncanny human behavior of adjusting to the new environment, you end up giving up whole lot things that you wanted to do. Probably that’s the nature of life. Its been too little a time for me to make a judgment on whether all these changes that I have enforced to myself is good or bad. Maybe in the long run it ends up being a good decision…